I have to tell my parents that I got into trouble in college

DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm really stressed and need some advice.

I'm 21 years old, studying business administration and working part-time as a cashier. I'm struggling to juggle work, classes and studies, and recently I made a big mistake: I cheated on an important exam.

My professor found out and now I'm being kicked out of the class.

I'm really scared to tell my parents. They've always been super supportive and had high hopes for me, so I feel terrible. I need to explain what happened and hopefully get their support.

What's the best way to talk to them about it without just making excuses and being honest about the stress I'm under?

— Face the consequences

DEAR WHO FACES THE CONSEQUENCES: Go to your parents. Tell them you're having problems and that you want to tell them what's going on.

Explain everything that happened, including cheating on the test and the consequences.

I expect you will have to repeat the course, which will cost more money. Talk to your parents about what it will take to get back on track and what support you hope they will give you.

Make it clear that you regret putting yourself in this situation, promise not to cheat again, and seek the academic support you need to continue on your path.

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been with my partner for over a year and we have a strong and supportive relationship.

On her birthday, she expressed her desire to take a year off to travel and pursue personal interests – a long-held dream of hers.

Although I fully support her decision, I am concerned about how this extended separation might affect our relationship. We have always been close and the idea of being apart for a whole year is challenging for me. Additionally, my work commitments might prevent me from visiting her frequently during this time.

How can I best support their plans when my own worries overshadow my thoughts? Can we still maintain our connection and keep our relationship healthy during this time?

— Maintaining connection despite distance

LOVE CONNECTION MAINTAINING THROUGH DISTANCE: A year is a long time and at the same time it is only the blink of an eye. Over time it will probably seem that way.

Yes, it will probably be harder for you because you will be staying at home and carrying on with your normal life while your girlfriend goes on a big adventure.

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